正面全裸的女权主义,女权主义者的性欲观

女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)作者一贯感到,女权主义者都以些身穿男人西装剪着男生发型叼着烟卷不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。今后才明白过来,原本女权主义者也可能有七情六欲的!不仅仅如此,她们的欲望比平日女子更直接,更加强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了任何一个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干那件事(以及其余关于性的晋升)FEMINISTS DO IT BETTECR-V (AND OTHE中华V SEX TIPS)》。她直截了当就本人光彩夺目“小编在床的上面比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I'm better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)今世父权社会对女子有一种自相争论的双重标准:一方面,女生在公共场所领受“守贞教育”,早晨则在TV上收看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被引导说婚前性行为是畸形的,另一方面又告诉你,你若想形成一名春假辣妹,你快速对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When you're getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone Wild commercials at night, it's not exactly easy to develop a healthy sexuality. You're taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you'd better start making out for the camera.)守贞史学家是那般来教育女人的:“你们的身体正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与恋人产生性关系时,他剥去你的伪装,含吮起来。当时或然感到到没有错,可可惜的是,他与您完事后,你们留给下一人伴侣的正是衣冠不整,口水臭味的流毒。”("Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but unfortunately, when he's done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. ")够耸人听别人讲的。可是女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“小编的处女膜作者做主!(Our Hymens, Ourselves )”她说:“小编未曾闹精通处女贞操有啥样大不断,真的。作者的贞操在中学时代就被一名男友没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了少数年呢。小编还认为会有何异样的痛感吧,未有。小编总感觉这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉一遍事很笨拙。所以你能够虚拟,当本身发掘本人原本是被用过即弃的废品时有多愕然。”(I have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity. Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel different—I didn't. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was just a used-up piece of trash without it.)笔者比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是瞧不起男子的。不过在拍卖自身的性欲时,她们对男士的情态明显又是另一番景象。诚然,她们与女婿上床,再亦非为了投其所好娃他爹,更不是为了传宗接代,而纯粹是为着谐和的欢愉。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,就是:一边做女权主义者,一边交配!(f***ing while feminist !)只是,面临壹个人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小男子消受得起?

只是,面前碰到壹个人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小汉子消受得起?

自己直接感到,女权主义者都以些身穿男子西装剪着爱人发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。

守贞史学家是如此来教育女生的:“你们的躯体就是一根棒棒糖。当你们与先生发生性关系时,他剥去你的假相,含吮起来。当时说不定认为到没有错,可可惜的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一个人伴侣的便是衣冠不整,口水臭味的沉渣。”("Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but unfortunately, when he's done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. ")

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本身比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是鄙夷匹夫的。不过在管理本身的情欲时,她们对先生的态度明朗又是另一番景观。诚然,她们与相恋的人上床,再亦不是为了投其所好夫君,更不是为了传宗接代,而纯粹是为了和谐的欢快。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:一边做女权主义者,一边交欢!(Fucking while feminist !)

方今才明白过来,原本女权主义者也许有七情六欲的!不唯有如此,她们的私欲比普通女人更直接,更加强势,更自私。

今世父权社会对女孩子有一种自相争辩的双重标准:一方面,女子在大庭广众承受“守贞教育”,深夜则在电视上来看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被感化说婚前性行为是非平常的,另一方面又告诉你,你若想成为一名春假辣妹,你赶紧对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When you're getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone Wild commercials at night, it's not exactly easy to develop a healthy sexuality. You're taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you'd better start making out for the camera.)

瓦伦蒂用了方方面面三个章节来论述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干那事(以及其余关于性的唤起)FEMINISTS DO IT BETTE陆风X8 (AND OTHEXC90 SEX TIPS)》。

够耸人听他们讲的。可是女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“小编的处女膜小编做主!(Our Hymens, Ourselves )

她直截了当就自笔者酷炫“作者在床的上面比你行,而这得归功于女权主义。”(I'm better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)

”她说:“作者从未闹精晓处女贞操有怎么着大不断,真的。作者的贞节在中学时代就被一名男友没怎么费事就夺去了。大家后来还约会了好几年啊。笔者还以为会有如何特殊的感觉吗,未有。作者总感到这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉贰遍事很古板。所以你能够想象,当笔者发现本身原本是被用过即弃的污源(或棒棒糖)时有多愕然。”(I have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity. Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel different—I didn't. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

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